Celebrate With Care: 5 Consent Reminders for Pride
By Abigail Willie
Happy Pride Season! At Canvas Programs, we’re committed to teaching the importance of consent. As we celebrate, here are 5 tips and reminders to keep things safe, joyful, and respectful!
1. Consent is Communication.
There are many ways to say no – silence, hesitation, and discomfort included. When we ask first, it makes a huge difference! Remember that consent must be enthusiastic, clear, and ongoing. Anything less than this is a no.
2. Consent Isn’t Just Sexual.
Consent isn’t only about intimacy; it includes taking or posting photos and videos, hugging, touching, dancing, starting deep conversations, and more. Pride is full of excitement and joy, but that we don’t all celebrate in the same way – not everyone likes being touched (especially performers – tip: admire the flair, but don’t go there). Remember to ask first!
3. Consent is Clarity.
Consent is more than a one-time question – it’s ongoing. Any person can change their mind at any point, and it’s important to create a safe, respectful space to do so. Alcohol and substances can affect somebody’s state of mind. Ensure that everyone is fully present, engaged, and informed before moving forward. Don’t push beyond anyone’s limits – even your own.
4. Talk About Boundaries.
As mentioned, consent isn’t just sexual. When we ask about boundaries in everyday interactions, it promotes a safe and respectful environment. This can look like saying,
“Do you feel comfortable here? It’s pretty crowded.”
“Would it be okay if I took your photo? You look amazing!”
“Would you like some water or to sit down for a bit?”
Respecting boundaries is a part of showing care!
5. Practice!
When something feels unfamiliar, it’s completely normal to need practice. To make consent a habit, try practicing on your own – reflecting on your personal boundaries through deep thought, journaling, or chatting with a friend are great ways to help you understand yourself and gain awareness of others’ needs! Remember, consent doesn’t end with words. Pride can be overwhelming – consider how your language, tone, and presence might affect other people.
Wishing everyone a safe, enjoyable, and empowering Pride Season – let’s celebrate by showing care for ourselves and others!🌈
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